Sending love

The Instructions

Introduction

One concern people seem to have when I mention that we have the ability to send Love to other

people is about one person controlling another. Love does not control. There is nothing about

Love that is controlling or manipulative. Love has the ability to affect a person’s behavior and

how they feel. A person who feels Love and is surrounded by Love tends to behave in different

ways than one who feels unloved and angry or depressed. When a person is angry, sad,

depressed, or feels unloved, his actions resemble the lack of Love. The amount of Love a

person has is directly associated with their actions, words, thoughts, and behavior. Normally it

is accepted that there is not much we can do, but that is just an illusion. We have the ability to

send massive amounts of Love to people, animals, plants, and our environment. The results

can be astounding. Children are a perfect example. Their actions are an instant and perfect

reflection of the amount of Love they have. Just because someone loves them does not

necessarily mean they are receiving this Love, and that’s where the difference lies. Loving

someone is wonderful but sending them Love is where you will really see the magic.

Who do we send Love to? Everyone, Our lovers, children, friends, co-workers, people we

meet, the people who govern our cities and countries, and everyone that you encounter. We

can fill our homes with Love, surround our cities with Love, and send Love to our pets and

plants. You might be very pleasantly surprised to see how well plants do when they are

surrounded with Love. There’s nothing stopping anyone from filling an entire field with Love.

We can send Love into the food we eat and the food we serve. And on it goes.

Love is very magnetic. It attracts more Love and joy to it. I’ve watched people change right in

front of my eyes and become happier, more joyful, relaxed, and peaceful. It’s a wonderful

feeling to be able to help others, considering how easy it is. Any place I go, whether it’s a

meeting, a party, or just a gathering, I always send Love there first, and it makes all the

difference. Love is very magnetic and if you fill yourself with Love to the point where you

become radiant with Love, you will very quickly find that people are attracted to you and will

try to be near you. This is very natural; after all, if you were at a party, who would you

gravitate towards? The person who is radiant with Love or someone who is unhappy and not

feeling loved? The more radiant we are with Love and the closer people and animals come, the

more Love they receive and the happier and more joyful they become. All in all, it becomes an

incredible experience for everyone; there is a sense of joy, peace, openness, and belonging.

In order to send Love to other people, animals, plants, or the world, you need to open your

heart and let the Love flow. Not only is it as easy as breathing, but each time you send Love

you receive more Love yourself because the Love comes from within you and must travel

through you before it is sent out. And that’s an indescribable bonus.

Opening our hearts and becoming radiant with Love is a very natural thing and happens very

often on an unconscious level. For instance when we hold a small baby or puppy or kitten in

our arms, our heart begins to open and we begin to feel and radiate Love. When we fall in

Love with someone, that other person becomes the trigger mechanism that opens our hearts,but in time the trigger mechanism wears out and then we wonder why we don’t feel as much

Love as we did before. That’s usually when the trouble starts. But when we have the ability to

open our hearts consciously by ourselves and send Love to another person, Love can continue

to grow instead of drying up like a puddle in the hot sun. There is no limit to the amount of

Love people can feel and experience. If we are not in a relationship, we can still feel Love and

feel loved. There is no reason why we need to wait day after day for someone to come along to

open our hearts. We have the ability to open our hearts, fill ourselves and become radiant with

Love and thereby attracting more Love.

When I learned to send Love, it became the joy of my life. For the first time in my life I really

felt I could make a difference. What a difference that has made to my life! As I radiate out

more Love, I attract more good things and good experiences to myself. The more I work with

Love, the more everything just seems to click for me and work out perfectly.

Relaxing and Letting Go

The most important part about learning to open your heart, filling yourself with Love and

sending Love, is learning to completely relax and let go of all other thoughts. It’s very

important during any of the following exercises that you stay focused and leave all other

thoughts alone. If you find yourself drifting off, simply bring yourself back and continue.

With a little practice and time, you will find it becomes easier each time. Unless you have had

some practice with meditation or relaxing exercises, it’s probably best that you either lie or sit

down somewhere quiet where you will not be disturbed and spend a few moments clearing your

mind and totally relaxing your body. With practice you will be able to open your heart and

send Love virtually anywhere and anytime, because you will be able to relax your body and

instantly clear your mind and focus on your heart.

There’s a certain feeling that comes when you open your heart. This is difficult to learn if you

do not start off learning it in a quiet and peaceful environment. This is because when your

body is totally relaxed and your mind is clear and calm, there is a certain inner sensory

perception. This is important because that is where you will find the feelings associated with

opening your heart.

Even though I am able to send Love virtually anywhere, like while riding a bus or driving in a

car, I still spend 15 to 20 minutes each day where I lie down and totally focus on opening my

heart and radiating Love. This seems to dramatically increase my ability every time.

There are many books on the market about relaxing and calming the mind so I won’t go into it

in too much detail. If you find it is easier for you to relax by listening to perhaps a meditation

tape or some very relaxing and soothing music, that seems to work very well and it won’t

interfere with your ability to open your heart.

Here’s what I do whether I’m lying down or sitting. First I totally relax my body by making

sure every muscle in my body is relaxed, even my face muscles. I do this by pretending that

I’m going to sleep and I tell my body that we are going to have a nap. I let my body go to sleep

while I clear my mind of all thoughts. The way I clear my mind is much the same way as the

instructions for moving forward in time. I imagine that my mind is connected to the larger part

of me. It doesn’t matter what you call this part, just connect to it and let all your concerns and

other thoughts slip away. I do this by what I call inner listening. I put all my focus and

attention on hearing that larger part of myself. After that it’s just a matter of focusing my

mind on opening my heart and sending Love, whatever it is I choose to do.

If you have a serious problem with keeping your mind from drifting with various thoughts that

keep coming up, I imagine an extremely bright beam of light coming down into the top of myhead. It reaches directly into the middle of my brain, and then expands from there. This seems

to completely clear out all other thoughts.

For maximum results, your body needs to be totally relaxed and even asleep, and your mind

needs to be clear of everything except that which you want to achieve. After a bit of practice

you will be able to open your heart and send Love anytime, but I have found in the long run

that I get maximum results when I lie down and let my body go to sleep while my mind stays

awake but focused.

So there it is. It’s simple. Sometimes people tell me that they don’t have an extra twenty

minutes a day for this. I can understand that because they seem to be spending most of their

day trying to straighten out all the crap that seems to happen to them. I wonder why so much

crap happens to them while my days go by like a lucky charm? Maybe it’s that twenty minutes

I spend every day sending Love. What do you think?

Opening your Heart, Filling and Surrounding Yourself with

Love

Opening our hearts, filling and surrounding ourselves with Love is so easy to do that you’ll

think it couldn’t possibly work, but it does work and it is a very natural occurrence. I pretend

there is a valve near my heart in the center of the upper part of my chest. When we fall in

Love with someone, this imaginary valve opens, and in a manner of speaking most of the Love

we feel comes from us. We also become radiant with Love and as we connect more with the

other person we have fallen in Love with, we begin to receive their Love and also send ours to

them. As we fall in Love, this other person becomes the trigger mechanism that opens this

valve and allows the Love to flow, but in time the things that this person does or says that

opened our hearts slowly stops working. That is why sometimes the Love that we felt at the

beginning seems to slowly dissipate. As you can imagine, this causes a lot of problems in a

relationship. Many times it causes it to end, at which point our hearts begin to close even more,

and that is where the largest part of the pain that we feel comes from. As our hearts close it

becomes more and more painful. But we have the ability to open our hearts on our own. We

do not need to feel the pain that is caused by our hearts closing. We can continuously open our

hearts more each day and we can send this Love to each other so that as the days and years go

by, we experience more and more Love. There is no limit to the amount of Love we can feel,

have, and experience. Many people have told me that as a relationship develops that there is a

point where it becomes comfortable and safe. And I agree with that. They have reached an

acceptable amount of Love...less than they had at a certain point in their relationship, but more

than they had before. But why limit it to that? Why not keep growing further in Love and

allowing more Love to grow? Everyone dreams of experiencing more Love even if they have

been in a very good relationship for quite some time. It is natural for us to want to grow and to

experience more Love each day. And the really beautiful thing about our ability to open our

own heart is that we do not need to wait for a relationship so that we can feel and be radiant

with Love. It’s just a matter of deciding what we really want. Are we totally satisfied with the

amount of Love we have or do we want more Love? Why not, it’s there inside us and it’s free!

Where there’s an abundance of Love there cannot be pain, anguish, hurt, angers or hate. None

of these things can survive in Love. If you have any problems with these other things it’s just

a matter of opening your heart and filling yourself with Love, and those things will disappear

very quickly.

The instructions that follow are very simple, and it’s not important for you to follow them one

hundred percent. What is important is that your mind is clear and focused on opening your

heart, and that your intentions are there. As you begin to play with this exercise in openingyour heart, allow it to change to whatever works best for you on that particular day. This

exercise is designed to get you started. Let it grow and become you. If you want, you can

record the instructions on a tape with some background music and just lie back and follow

your own instructions. This actually works very well.

So just relax, have fun, and keep your pants on because you’re not going to believe the things

you are going to experience. It’s going to be one beautiful ride.

This is how I do it. I lie down because I prefer that to sitting up, but if I don’t have the

opportunity to lie down I’ll do it sitting up or even standing. I begin to relax my body by

simply letting it go.

Next, let go of all thoughts and any concerns you have about things that you need to do today.

Sometimes I pretend that the world doesn’t exist and I tell myself that I refuse to think about

anything that is beyond my physical body.

Breathing properly is also helpful. I breathe very slowly but deeply, taking large slow breaths.

This slows down my stray thoughts, and very quickly tends to bring about a calming effect

throughout my body.

Continue breathing slowly and deeply. Bring your consciousness inside your body. Imagine

that you are trying to listen to your inner self or soul (whatever you prefer to call it). Listen

with all your attention; focus on listening and hearing what your inner self might be saying to

you. Listen to the quiet, the peace that is inside you. Continue to do this for as long as you

like.

Now imagine that there is a very bright light in the center of your chest like a very large

brilliant diamond glowing as bright as the sun. Use your imagination any way you like. See

this glowing light as Love. You can see it as sparkles or a golden light, whatever you choose.

Just focus on the fact that it is Love. Now allow this Love that is glowing from your heart to

become brighter and larger. Use your inner senses to increase the size and bring it out and

beyond your body so that you are becoming a small sun glowing and radiating with Love. Feel

yourself being filled with Love, as you become more radiant. Notice how every cell in your

body is absorbing this Love and becoming radiant with Love. Feel this Love, feel how you are

now surrounded and radiant with Love. Notice how your hands and feet are radiating with

Love. You are glowing with Love. As you breathe in, you can feel your lungs filling with Love

and even more Love circulating through your body. Continue to feel this as much as possible.

In your imagination, see how radiant you have become with Love. See how everything that you

touch receives this Love. Anyone who comes near you receives the Love that you radiate.

Continue to see and feel yourself becoming even more radiant, constantly increasing the Love

each time you breathe, becoming brighter and more radiant with Love each breath. Feel the

joy that is bubbling up from inside you. Feel how you are filled with joy, feel how loved you

are. As you become more and more radiant, you are becoming magnetic and drawing more

Love to you, attracting people happiness and joy. You are becoming magnetic and drawing

good, joyful, and loving things towards you. In your mind’s eye see how everyone who comes

close to you receives the Love you are radiating. You are so filled with Love that you are

radiating Love into the world. Continue to increase the sensation and feelings of Love. You

may notice warmth in your chest area, or a feeling of pressure or pain. This is all right. It is

because your heart is opening. Keep breathing slowly and deeply, opening to your heart even

more. Become even more radiant with Love, filling your entire body and mind with Love.

Notice how your thoughts are changing. Notice how you are becoming more loving and

understanding as you are becoming Love.

Stay there as long as you want. You can do this as many times a day as you like. The more

you do this, the more radiant with Love you will become and the more Love and joy and good

things you will attract to yourself. People and animals will want to be near you. Allow themthis, for they are searching for more Love and as you become more radiant with Love they

receive Love from you. It is a gift beyond words.

Now you can send its Love to other people or fill your home or your work area with Love. The

list is endless. If it comes to your mind, send it Love. It’s that simple. You have an endless

supply of Love. You cannot ever run out.

Sending Love to People

When you want to send Love to a Lover, friends, co workers, or anyone, first you need to open

your heart and become radiant with Love, as described in the “Opening Your Heart” exercise.

There are different ways you can send Love to other people; each of which has a tendency to

give different results. Unfortunately it would take an entire book for me to list all the

possibilities that I have seen and experienced, so that is something you will need to discover for

yourself. I will explain some of the possibilities.

When you send Love to another person, it’s best when we expect nothing in return but are just

giving a gift of unconditional Love. It’s usually best if you send the Love totally

unconditionally; in other words, letting the other person decide in what manner it is best used.

Because we are more than our conscious mind, that larger part of ourselves will direct the

Love into whatever area it is most needed in the present moment. It is, however, possible to

send Love and put a small stipulation with it, as when someone is very ill and you are sending

Love to assist their healing. Still in my experience, ninety percent of the time I have found that

it is best just to send them Love because sometimes their illness can actually do them more

good in the long run than a quick recovery. Sometimes if someone is ill, I will send them Love

in various ways, one being unconditional, and also at a separate time send them Love to assist

their healing. I do this only if it feels right at the time. When your heart is open and you are

radiant with Love, quietly ask which way would be best for this person at this time. You will

always receive an answer, most likely as a feeling. If it feels right, do it.

Here are a few different ways that you can send Love. I assume you will know which one will

be the correct one at a given time for this particular person.

1. We can send Love and surround the person with Love, filling with Love the room that this

person might be in. This works extremely well in many different circumstances, such as a

party that is not going very well. Simply surround everyone with Love and you’ll find that

the entire mood will change very quickly. This also works well in meetings or job

interviews, or even a get-together with a friend. It’s like draping them with a warm blanket

of Love. And who would say no to that. This also works extremely well if you happen to

be with a person who is very nervous or agitated or irritated. You will find that they will

calm down considerably and very quickly. In case you’re thinking this has anything to do

with control, Love has nothing to with control. This is a lot like giving someone a hug, but

it’s a hundred times more beneficial.

2. We can send Love directly into the person and filling them with Love, and also send Love

to a particular area in their body that they are having some problems with. If you are

doing this, imagine the Love going into this particular area in the body and totally filling

each cell with Love until they begin to glow and radiate Love. Then visualize whatever

ailment they have leaving the body. You can visualize this any way you like. It is your

intent to send Love that brings it about. Visualizing it is only the method to engage your

intent.

3. We can send Love directly to a person’s heart. This will assist that person in opening their

heart and allows the Love to flow into them from their own heart center. This works

extremely well if someone has recently ended a relationship or is going through a life crisisand is experiencing a lot of pain. This works extremely well under those circumstances

because one of the main reasons they are feeling this pain is because their heart has begun

to close. There is nothing more painful.

4. We can also send Love directly to another person’s heart in order to connect more closely

with them, such as with your mate or lover. You will find that this creates a very close

connection and even allows you to be with that person despite the fact that they may be far

away. If two people agree to do this with each other, it can become one of the most

beautiful and loving experiences you might ever have. It creates an incredible bond

between two people and at the same time you will still be an individual. This sounds like

an incredible combination, but it works. And it’s beautiful because you will never feel

alone, providing both of you agree to this. Timing is not important. Love works beyond

time so even if you send your mate Love in the morning and your mate did not do it until

the evening, the connection will be exactly the same as if you had done it at exactly the

same time. It doesn’t really matter how this works. What is important is that it does, and

that the results are beautiful.

Open your heart and fill and surround yourself with Love. Then imagine a beam of Love

coming from that glowing heart center in your chest, moving upwards to your mind and head

center. Now see a beautiful golden beam of Love going from your eyes directly to the eyes of

your mate or Lover. Continue with this and at the same time see another beautiful golden beam

of Love coming from your heart and going directly to your mate or lover’s heart. Be still and

continue this for as long as you like. You can also do this at any time of the day and as many

times as you like. Remember that Love is unconditional and there are no controlling factors

involved here what so ever. When your lover or mate does the same, the connection will be

complete even though it is not necessarily done at the same moment. The more you do this the

closer you will be connected. I’ll let you discover the magic of that, but don’t be too surprised

if you begin to know what he or she is about to say even before they say it.

So there it is. I’m sure that many of you will discover new things and new ways of sending

Love. That’s the joy of it. When your heart is open and you are filled and radiant with Love,

you will know exactly what to do. Just follow that inner guidance and trust that Love is

capable of working its own miracles. All we need to do is give a little.

When I first started with all of this, I used to see Love as a golden sparkling light and I would

imagine seeing it go exactly where I was sending it. It doesn’t matter how you see Love in

your minds eye, only that you have the intention to send Love. I’ve slowly discovered that

using my imagination sends a message to some larger part of myself, which then initiates the

process of opening my heart and sending Love. But the bottom line is always the same: it

works. When you feel that you have sent enough Love, stop and continue some other time.

You cannot hurt anyone by sending Love, so there is really no reason to be afraid. Have fun!

Sending Love to your Children

I have a child of my own and one of the things that I have learned is that children can be very

rewarding but also they can give you challenges that can really boggle the mind. And if you

have any buttons, they will push them until something breaks! That is just their nature. The

challenge can be quite frustrating sometimes. So in this area I’ve decided to go into it in more

detail because they are our future and our life. If you have children, learning to fill yourself

with Love and to send them Love will be one the biggest blessings of your life. I know that’s a

big statement, but I’ve been there and I’ve seen the results.

Around Easter 1996, my son came back to live with me. Everything was going very smoothly,

which is saying quite a lot considering he was a teenager. I was spending a lot of my timeworking on different probabilities and shifting around in those probabilities, and with moving

forward and backward in time. This took an enormous amount of effort so I wasn’t working

much with Love then. I was spending very little time sending Love to my son, which turned out

not to be the most productive decision I’ve ever made. But it turned out to be quite a learning

experience.

The only disagreement we basically had was what time he should come home in the evening.

This turned into a daily disagreement, and finally it heated up to a very short argument, when

my son in his infinite wisdom decided to run away from home to make his point.

I decided to just let it be because I wasn’t worried about him because I was able to go where he

was, using the same method as I used with Rudy, our dog. This worked extremely well.

Unfortunately my ex-wife went into a panic and decided to visit and brought her sister with

her. Sometimes the best intentions can do more damage than not, but nevertheless after a few

days of running around trying to catch up with my son they reluctantly decided to go home and

hoped that he would come back on his own.

I had not told them about my experiences or my work with Love. While they were there I was

not able to do the things that I wanted to do. After they left I immediately began sending my

son massive amounts of Love. I found one of his friends and gave her an envelope with some

money in it, along with a note that said it was fine for him to come home at any time. Then I

got on my imaginary train and traveled to where he was and began speaking with that larger

part of him. I listened allot, too. Listening was probably the most important part because I

began to understand what was going on inside him. I told his larger part that I could give him

the freedom that he wanted, but that he should come home as quickly as possible. That larger

part agreed. From the moment I began sending Love to him, he was home within thirty-six

hours.

When he came home I relaxed my rules about what time he needed to be home. Actually I left

it wide open. I have to admit that there was a part of me that was concerned but at the same

time there was also a part of me that knew everything would work out perfectly as long as I

continued to send him Love.

As soon as my son headed out the door, I took 15 minutes to fill and surround him with as

much Love as I could. Within forty-five days everything changed. My son’s behavior changed,

our relationship changed, the people he was hanging out with changed. It was like I was

dealing with a totally different person. It was just incredible. It also would take forever to

explain all the details, but you will see those results for yourself.

My son wanted to hang out with a group of teenagers that I wasn’t very impressed with or very

concerned would be a better way to express it. As I began surrounding him with Love, that all

changed. They rejected him even though they would talk to him on the phone and would tell

him where they would meet, but when they physically saw him there they would leave him

behind. It took me a while to figure out all the details about exactly what happened. When a

person is filled and surrounded with Love we vibrate at a different level than someone who is

unhappy or angry at the world. We do not match. Look at it from the perspective of the other

kids. When he was talking to them on the phone everything was fine because he spoke the

same language as they did, but when they met in person, he would be standing there radiating

and glowing with Love, and even though consciously they did not see it, they felt it. They

would not match and nor would they want him along on their travels.

This caused a bit of confusion for my son because he did not want to be in the goody two shoes

crowd but was rejected by the bad boys. At least he was never again in any trouble and things

seem to click for him very well. Love is magnetic and so he attracts people to him very easily

and people tend to like him very quickly. Something that you may also notice is that when youare filled and surrounded with Love people tend to treat you with a lot more respect and

kindness, which is how things seem to work for him now.

To send Love to your children, just follow the same steps as in opening your heart and sending

Love to other people. You can also connect to your children using the instructions on how to

connect with your mate or lover.

Going where your children are and speaking and listening to that larger part of them is fairly

easy to do. It does take a little bit of practice, but everyone can do it. I have made some

changes in this over the years. You can take the instructions and record them on a tape, which

you can listen to while taking that journey. You can also use this for many other things: for

instance, if you want to visit your mate, even if they are out of the country. You can also use

this to speak to another person’s larger part and very easily solve an argument or a

misunderstanding. Remember that listening is more important than expressing your point of

view. If you remember that, you will do just fine with it. If you are concerned about privacy,

give it up. There is no such thing. It is nothing but an illusion. Think about that and you’ll see

what I mean. If you’re doing things that other people shouldn’t find out about, it would be best

if you take a second look at those actions, and be prepared to accept the consequences. If there

is Love in your heart you have nothing to hide or be afraid of.

By the way, various governments have been using this method for spying for quite a number of

years, and it’s not even a secret. You can go to any library and look up the information.

To start, follow your normal relaxation exercise and then open your heart, making yourself as

radiant with Love as possible.

Now imagine that you are inside a bubble of Love. See and feel this as clearly as possible. Let

the world drift away. Begin to think about the person that you want to visit. Don’t concern

yourself where they might be. Think about them and with your mind, feel your bubble of Love

beginning to travel to wherever they are. Your bubble of Love is moving faster and faster.

Trust that it will take you where you want to go. Your bubble of Love begins to slow down

and as it comes to a stop, the bubble disappears, but you are still radiant and surrounded by

Love. Use your imagination to see the person that you have come to visit. Ignore the

surroundings. Let them come on their own. Focus only on the person. Is she or he sitting or

standing or lying down? Now imagine a beam of beautiful golden Love coming from your

heart going directly to their heart, filling and surrounding them with Love, and see Love

coming from your heart center into your mind and from your eyes traveling to theirs. Ask a

question if you like, or ask them to speak with you and listen. Listen with all your focus but

do not strain. Feel the information flowing into you as thoughts, ideas, and feelings. Each time

you do this you will be able to hear and understand more clearly.

Continue for as long as you feel comfortable.

When you are done speaking and listening, look at the surroundings. Where are you? What do

you see, feel, and sense? Absorb the surroundings; sense them as much as possible. Do this

for as long as you like.

When you are ready to return, surround yourself again with a bubble of Love and feel it

returning to your present place and time. When you are back, wake up very slowly. If you

need to, write down everything you felt, heard, and saw. Have fun!

If you are recording this on a tape, make sure to stretch it out for at least 20 minutes, not

counting your relaxation time, and filling and surrounding yourself with Love. I have found

that it works best for me after I’ve gone for a long walk or have done some physical exercise.

It’s extremely important to allow your body to go to sleep so that all your focus is on what you

are trying to do, see, and hear with your inner senses.Filling your home with Love

At least four to five times a week, I take five extra minutes when I’m working with Love to fill

my home with Love. It changes the whole atmosphere of the place and creates a very peaceful

and relaxing environment. It seems to remove the normal nervous energy that is in the air,

especially in a city. As soon as you walk out my door and off my property you can

immediately tell there is a difference. I have yet to have someone visit and not have them

mention at some time how peaceful and relaxing it feels. This is not the house or the furniture.

When you come to visit, you are literally surrounded and engulfed with Love. Even people

who tend to be on the nervous side sit down and calmness seems to come over them.

You can do this no matter where you live, whether it’s a house, condo, apartment, tent, cave,

or a sleeping bag; it doesn’t matter.

It’s very easy to do. Before you finish sending or working with Love, imagine that there is a

giant valve in your heart that is being cranked open and a massive amount of Love is flowing

out. Visualize this Love going everywhere, filling your home and property with Love.

Visualize every corner of every room and everything that you have being saturated with Love

so that the air is thick with Love. That’s it, it’s that simple.

Filling your work with Love

This can really be very interesting and a lot of fun. Use your imagination on the different

things you can do. For instance, you can fill your work area with Love just the same way you

would fill your home with Love. You do not need to be at work to do this. You can do any of

these things from anywhere.

I’ve had lots of fun with this and have had some fascinating experiences. The most important

thing is to open your heart and make yourself radiant. Then you can send Love to all the people

you work with, surrounding them with Love. You can send Love to your customers. You can

fill the entire business with Love. You can also fill the products you sell with Love. I could

easily write a whole book on the experiences I’ve had with sending Love to my work, but I’ll

just let you see those results for yourself. Maybe you’ll write that book. It will definitely be a

book worth reading. They say money talks, but so does Love, and it talks a lot louder. Have

fun. And you will, especially once you see how helpful you can be to other people just by

sending them Love. One warning: it might be best if you send Love out beyond the area where

you work. Otherwise, you may find it will become the local meeting area, and your boss might

not see that exactly from the same perspective as you do.

Filling everything with Love

You can add Love to anything you can do mentally or physically, or to anything you touch or

think about. There is no end to it. Here’s a bit of a list just to get the juices flowing.

Writing a letter? Fill it with Love.

When going for a job interview, why not send Love first?

Fill your home with Love.

Fill your friends with Love.

Send Love to your pets.

Send Love to your plants.

Send Love to your boss.

Send Love to your mate.

Fill everything you have with Love.

Send Love to the animals in the world.Send Love to the forests, especially the ones that you are trying to protect.

Send Love to the people that are trying to cut these forests down. You might be pleasantly

surprised with the results.

Fill and surround your town with Love.

Send Love into the world.

Send Love to the leaders of various towns, cities, provinces and countries. Those results will

knock your socks off.

Help other people by sending them Love.

Send Love to your children.

If you are building, carving, painting, or selling something you’ll find it will be much more

appealing to others if it is radiant with Love.

If enough people send Love into the world and to other people, peace would come about very

quickly.

I could go on and on. I’m pretty confident that you get the picture.

A Little Extra Love in the Bedroom

It’s always nice and very helpful when you have a partner who is willing to do these things

with you, but I know from past experiences that this is not always the case. So if that is the

situation you’re in, do it anyway for yourself because it will make a difference.

Before making Love with someone it would really be helpful if you take a few minutes and

open your heart and become radiant with Love. While you are making Love, slow down and do

the exercise for connecting to your partner. Continue to open your heart and send Love directly

into the other person’s heart. Over time you will find that your intimacy level will go through

the roof, and you’ll feel more Love than you have ever before. Even if your partner is not

interested, it will make a difference for you, and you may then notice some changes happening

to your partner.

Sometimes really loving someone deeply can be very frightening, but what is really frightening

is never experiencing that deep inner Love.

Creating What You Want with Love

This is very easy to do and will work so perfectly that you’ll wonder what’s going on. Follow

the instructions about opening your heart and becoming radiant. Imagine what it is you want to

create. See it in your mind and feel it in your emotions as if you all ready have it. Then send an

enormous amount of Love into this scene. Do this every second day until it shows up in your

physical reality. Some things will literally show up overnight and other things may take a little

longer, but when you get what you want it will be beyond what you expected and it really will

be with Love. In case you think this is too simple to work, I can make it more complicated for

you if that makes you feel better. The old story about “no pain, no gain” is nothing but a pile

of crap, but if you prefer to believe that instead then so be it. And so it will be. It took me

many years to learn that and I’m glad I finally got it through my thick skull.

Add to instructions 2004 April

You must understand that I am growing and learning all the time like everyone else. The instructions in

the book are a starting point. A place to start and grow from not the end result. It will never end you will

be always shown a better way to send and create with love but you need to start somewhere. Sometimespeople want to jump ahead to the more advanced instructions and that is understandable but sending love

is like chewing gum you can give someone the basic instructions on how to chew gum and blow bubbles

but it is as individual a thing as are people and sending love is a very individual thing. It is by nature a

very personal thing or it will become that if you start and give it time to develop into an art as individual

as you. So then, how do you know if it is working and if you are doing it in a way that gives you the happy

results that you are longing for?

Your thoughts and feelings will tell you, when your thoughts are on what you love, you will feel good

because the love is flowing and your happy feelings are telling you so.

Your thoughts are most important for your thoughts are directing the flow of love and the flow of energy.

So spending time opening the flow is perfect and will do much for you but then if you can keep your

thoughts on things that make you feel good you keep the flow going and it will increase. Always look for

and think of that which makes you happy, it does not matter if it is real or not. Your feelings are the

indicator whether or not love is still flowing through you. So you do not try to control your thoughts but if

you feel yourself not feeling so happy then you know you need to switch your thoughts to something that

changes your feelings to something happy and the flow of love will continue to flow. Sometimes the

fastest way to get the flow going again is to appreciate something and it does not have to be real. You

could just sit there and appreciate how wonderful it feels to be loved by everyone and respected by

everyone and how wonderful it feels to have an endless supply of dollars to experience all of the wonderful

things life has to offer.

If you want something, feel what it would be like to have it and appreciate having it as if you already

have it. You will know when you are doing this the right way because you will feel good, happy, love and

excitement, these feelings are telling you that you are sending and flowing love and that these things are

coming to you. If you feel grouchy and unhappy then that is telling you that the flow has stopped and it is

because you are looking at something unhappy, like not having something you want.

Sending love is incredible but you must have a certain desire to direct your thoughts and keep them there

where the flow of love continues to flow no matter what else is happening. This will be explained in my

last book when the material is complete. Therefore, for the time being it is important that you turn away

from anything that brings you unhappy feelings and just look at something happy until you have practiced

it more and it becomes your natural state to look at something happy. So if someone is sad and it is

affecting you, change your thoughts to a time when they where laughing and happy and think of that time

and even make it up, then your feelings will change to happy and what does that tell you? It tells you that

you are now flowing love to you and to them.

Spending your time appreciating and making things up to appreciate if you are doing it with enough

desire you will become so happy that you won't care if it is real or not; but in time real it will become.

Expect it but do not look for it, just keep appreciating anything you can think of, spend your free time

looking for things that you can pretend you have and appreciate that you have them. If you feel happy you

are flowing love and if you are not feeling happy then you are most likely looking at what you don't have

and your unhappy feeling is telling you that either your flow of love has stopped or is now flowing to

something that you do not want. As an example if you look at a lack of money you then will feel sad, that

is telling you that the flow of love has either slowed down or is now creating a lack of money for you. For

a lack of money to love is not negative, it is just an experience and you have chosen it by your attention to

it. Send a flow of love and energy to it and love must create it for you for the law of the universe is

freedom and you are free to create what you want for yourself. You cannot create this for another but only

for yourself so instead open and flow love and think of what it is like to have, endless supply of dollars it

does not matter where they come from, only the wonderful feeling you get from it mater for thay are teling

you that you are flowing love. If it feels so good and happy to you and the (feeling) appreciating for

having it is there, and it feels good then that tells you love is already creating it for you. You will find that

this will take alot of practice and you will need to want to be happy more then anything else. The more

you do this the better your life will get and best of all everyone around you will get the benefit also because

the love will be flowing from you.If something sad happens, remember that feeling sad does not do any good if you have not enough money

then feeling that serves no value at all and you might as well think about the opposite and make yourself

happy by feeling what it is like to have an endless supply of dollars. The love will flow through you and it

will be created for you. Remember feeling it is most important you can visualize it but its your feelings

that will tell you whether what you are visualizing is what you want or what you don't want for when it

makes you happy love is flowing and it tells you love is creating happy things for you and for everyone

near you.

Someone said to me how can I appreciate and be happy when someone just blew up my house?

It is not easy but if you would like another house and to never have that happen again then you have only

one choice, and what is that? I just explained it to you so make your choice, think of what is and feel sad

and create more of it or think of what you want and pretend and appreciate having it so much that it

makes you feel happy. The love will flow and you will have it for it is the law of the universe for love will

flow, the desire will grow and you are free to grow what you want. Love will not create a negative for

someone else but by the law of the creator, it will give you what you want by your feeling attention

sending love to it. Therefore, if you would like a broken leg so that you don't have to go to work that will

be done.

Of course you could have sent love by appreciating a happy good paying job and had that instead. You

can send love to another and good things and only good things will be created for them but that does not

mean they will accept them, they still have a choice. Love will give them what they want not what you

want to give them nor what you think they should have but what they want. See sending love is a beautiful

thing and if you can dedicate yourself to doing it your life will be as beautiful as a fairytale tale and if you

do it right it will feel that way even before it has a chance to physically come about.

Visualizing is the reason to open the flow of love but its your feelings that will open the valve. Visualizing

on its on will not create much it is a tool we use to engage the good feelings and the flow of love. The

good feelings tell us that we are flowing love to what we truly want because we are looking at what we

want physically or mentally with visualizing. Visualize something you want right now and appreciate

having it even though you do not. If it is making you happy you are flowing love and it is coming to you;

how happy are you feeling? That is how you can tell how big the flow of love is.

If you think for one moment this does not take alot of practice (alot of practice) then your kidding

yourself. When you really get the hang of it, you will be so amazed. You won’t want to stop doing it.